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Excessive Eating

Written by Rabbi Yehoshua Alt, 23/2/2020

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Excessive Eating

The Ramban tells us that included in [1] is , excessive eating, as that is sanctifying ourselves with that which is permitted to us.[2]  

 

Excessive eating has Halachic ramifications. In explaining why one should leave room in his stomach for the third meal of Shabbos, the Mishna Brura[3] writes that if he doesnt leave room for it and still eats this meal, it may be which is not considered eating. Indeed, the Avudraham[4] tells us that we have three meals on Shabbos because if we know there are three meals, we wont eat , since one will eat at each meal what he needs then.

 

What about reciting a Bracha when one is satiated? One who is satiated before he eats and yet eats ( ), if he is disgusted by it and doesnt get pleasure, shouldnt recite a Bracha before or after since it is not considered eating.[5] 

 

In addition to this we know that overeating is physically dangerous. The Rambam writes is a poison and is the cause of sickness.[6] Likewise, Rabbeinu Yonah[7] (1200-1263) warns us against as it can cause great damage.[8] The Rambam[9] also states the secret of continual good health is to avoid overeating which causes great damage to the digestive system.[10]

 

What if one is unsure if he is satiated?[11] To see if one is full, he should wait 20 minutes because that is when the food is partially digested.[12] 

   

We were told that the Shulchan in the Mishkan was to have a , gold crown.[13] This hints to our desire for eating as this is what the Shulchan represents. Explains the Kli Yakar,[14] if we have control over our desire for food then it is a , crown as we are free and like a king with a crown. If our desire controls us then it is , stranger, outsider.[15] The Gra writes if one merits he consumes his food. If not, the food consumes him as he has great loss from it.[16] 

 

The Malbim[17] (1809-1879) remarks that a Tzadik eats what he needs for , spirituality, just that which he needs to sustain himself. This is what is meant in the Pasuk , a Tzadik eats to satisfy his soul meaning that which he needs for spirituality. The wicked on the other hand eat to fill their stomachs. The saying goes some people eat to live whereas others live to eat. The Pri Tzadik notes Esav exclaims , pour into me some of that red stuff as it stemmed from his tremendous desire for food.[18]  

 

                Some people may eat a food item because it is starting to spoil.  However, this is not a reason to eat the food if you are not hungry. The son of the Divrei Chaim (1793-1876) once ate the half of an apple his father left over because it was beginning to rot. His father said was the apple created to serve you or you to serve the apple? If you need to eat an apple now then eat it. If you dont need to, then dont. What difference does it make if the apple is about to rot?[19] We must keep in mind , [20] with respect to my body is more important meaning ones health comes first.

Rabbi Alt merited to learn under the tutelage of R Mordechai Friedlander Ztzl for close to five years. He received Semicha from R Zalman Nechemia Goldberg. Rabbi Alt has written on numerous topics for various websites and publications. He lives with his wife and family in a suburb of Yerushalayim where he studies, writes and teaches. The author is passionate about teaching Jews of all levels of observance.


[1] Vayikra, 19:2, Ramban, s.v. .

[2] There was a study done in which formerly heavy men and women were asked by researchers from the University of Florida if they would choose to be obese again or be afflicted with another malady. Each one of them chose another malady with 91 percent saying they would rather have a leg amputated and 89 percent saying they would rather be blind. What is the reason for such responses? The shame and lack of empathy heavy people endure as a result of their appearance. As someone said, When youre blind, people want to help you. No one wants to help you when youre fat.  

[3] 291:4.

[4] , s.v. . The Sefas Emes writes in a letter that Kidush shouldnt be lavish in order that you should have an appetite for Seudas Shabbos (Nitei Gavriel, 3, Heara 15).

[5] Mishna Brura 197:28. See Mishna Brura 476:6, 612:15.

[6] Hilchos Daos 4:15. When one is sick he cant serve Hashem properly. This is one reason one should be careful to avoid overeating (See Hilchos Daos 4:1).

[7] R Yonah, Avos 2:12, s.v. . He was a first cousin to the Ramban and was the Rebbe of the Rashba and the Ra'ah. In his youth he traveled to France to learn under one of the Baalei Tosafos, R Shlomo Min Hahar. R Yonah was a fierce opponent of the Rambam's philosophical views and is considered to have been instrumental in having the Rambam's Moreh Nevuchim burned by the non-Jewish authorities in Paris in 1233. The tragic burning of 24 wagon loads of Gemaros that were burned in the same square by the Church in 1242, sparked R Yonah to regret his past views and publicly admit his terrible mistake regarding the Rambam. While he strongly desired to go to the Rambam's grave in Eretz Yisroel to ask forgiveness, he never made it. Along the way he was in Barcelona for 3 years as he was detained. There he gave a shiur quoting the Rambam with awe. He then continued his journey and was detained in Toledo. There, he died suddenly. He was considered from the greatest of his generation and his death was mourned throughout the world. The Ramban wrote a moving , lamentation about his greatness upon his death. His Sefer Shaarei Teshuva is considered one of the greatest Mussar works. R Chaim Volozhin once commented that each Mussar Sefer is not appropriate for all people. While some may benefit from one, someone else may only benefit from another. However, he said Shaarei Teshuva is appropriate for every Jewish soul for all eras in all situations.

[8] Of course one should enjoy the food (There were however Tzadikim who would eat with minimizing their pleasure in food, if not altogether avoiding the pleasure). It has been recommended to be present when eating. Look at the food, touch it and taste it with presence. See the colors of the food that make it appetizing. Feel the texture. Realize the ambiance. Recognize the nuances of the eating experience. Notice the people you are eating with. What is the conversation at the meal? Absorb the nutrients of your meal. If you are thinking about the past or future, let it go. If you are about to eat under stress or your mind is in high gear, it has been suggested to sit in a comfortable position with your spine straight, with your feet flat on the floor. Then deeply inhale to 2/3 capacity of your lungs. Hold your breath for several seconds and exhale fully. Repeat this 10 times.

[9] In his medical writings, 1. The Pele Yoatz ( , s.v. ) writes some of the evils caused by overeating: it is since it is a waste of food. Excess eating is a waste of time since it is unnecessary. That is not even including the time he spends in the bathroom because of it. Additionally, one may become ill due to overeating (see also Sefer Charedim 66,94).

[10] Besides that being overweight makes such a person more susceptible to diabetes, heart disease and a host of other serious medical problems it also can make him unhireable when he is looking for a job. Also, many times, one earns more if he weighs less [There are diets named after places where rich people livefor example, The Scarsdale Diet (1978), The Beverly Hills Diet (1981) or The South Beach Diet (2003) since such people are considered to be slimmer than poor people.]. Various studies have shown that overweight people are seen as less conscientious, less agreeable, less emotionally stable, less productive, lazy, lacking in self-discipline, and even dishonest, sloppy, ugly, socially unattractive and the list goes on. The stereotypes run so deep that even obese people hold these same discriminatory beliefs about other obese people.

[11] The Rambam (Hilchos Daos 4:14) writes that undereating is one of the three ways that one avoids illness. He also (Hilchos Daos 4:2) writes that you shouldnt eat until your stomach is full (see Shemos 16:8, Rashi) rather eat until you are about three-quarters full.  

[12] To protect one from overeating one should be aware of the following. When eating, we should be seated since when we walk around grabbing food, we eat more. This can be from tasting food as we prepare meals, eating food out of packages and containers, taking bites of food from anothers plate as we clear the table or nibbling on food when we open the fridge or pantry. Usually the food we eat while standing was not food we planned on eating as it is an impulsive eating. Always put the food on a plate and dont eat from a package or container. For example. if you are eating nuts from a package you may eat a lot more than if you, for instance, took out 14 nuts to eat.

[13] Shemos 25:24.

[14]  Shemos 25:25.

[15] The word means a crown as well as stranger.

[16] Aderes Eliyahu. Incidentally, (Devarim 12:23) can be interpreted to mean dont eat your Neshama while you are eating. That is, eat like one who is a civilized person. 

[17] Mishlei 13:25.

[18] Pri Tzadik, Chelek 2, Rosh Chodesh Shevat, p. 53a. Breishis 25:30. Tzadikim eat their food and enjoy it for the sake of Hashem. This is in contrast to the wicked who eat and enjoy the food only for its own sake. This is shown to us by Esav where Targum Onkolos states on , , taste.

[19] R Chaim Pinchas Scheinberg was once asked if it is considered to leave over some food (and not eat everything just because it is on ones plate) to control ones desire. He answered that just as it is permitted to make a potato into a doll and it is not since you are using it for a constructive purpose, likewise the same applies here since what can be better than working on your Middos and controlling your desire for food.

[20] Shabbos 129a.


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