Rejoicing at the Downfall of Our Enemies
Rejoicing at the Downfall of Our
Enemies:
Rabbi Shay Tahan
When
we experience a defeat of our enemy a question must be asked: are we allowed to
feel happy when wicked terrorists get punished for their actions? The pasuk says:
"בְּנָפֹל אוֹיִבְךָ אַל תִּשְׂמָח וּבִכָּשְׁלוֹ אַל
יָגֵל לִבֶּךָ" meaning
that one should not rejoice at the failure of his enemy, and it continues:
"פֶּן יִרְאֶה ה' וְרַע בְּעֵינָיו וְהֵשִׁיב מֵעָלָיו
אַפּוֹ". The Mefarshim
explain that the end of the pasuk goes so far as to say that Hashem gets so
angry when we rejoice at the downfall of our enemies that He sometimes removes
the punishment from the enemy and sends it upon the person rejoicing.
The
Gemara (מגילה טז, א) actually deals with this question, explaining that when
Mordechai was going up on the horse, he kicked the wicked Haman with his feet.
Haman turned to Mordechai and asked him from the above pasuk, “Aren’t you
restricted from showing happiness while your enemies are suffering?” Mordechai
then told him that there is a difference between a wicked Jew who gets
punished, at which we shouldn’t feel happy, and a wicked non-Jew who gets
punished, where we are permitted to feel happy. The explanation is simple: when
our brothers are being punished, even though they deserve it, we should still
feel their pain. According to this approach, we can conclude that it’s
permitted to be happy at the death of those evil terrorists since they are not
our brothers.
Still,
there is another question that needs clarification: when the Egyptians chased
the Jewish Nation at the sea, Hashem drowned them all in the ocean. Seeing the
Egyptians dying, the angels wanted to sing praises, but Hashem stopped them,
responding that it’s not correct to do so when His creations are being
destroyed (מגילה י, ב). We see again the idea of holding back from expressing
happiness when our enemies are being punished.
But
that is not always the case, since Chazal tell us that there are times one
should feel happy upon seeing the wicked being punished, and it is then a
positive thing to rejoice. The Gemara (ברכות ט, ב) explains that King David, who was
constantly singing praises of Hashem with Tehilim, didn’t use the praise of
“Haleluya” until he was happy to see the downfall of the wicked. Another pasuk
says that there is joy when the wicked are eliminated, and Sefer Chasidim (237)
even says that one may be punished if he isn’t happy when the wicked are lost.
A
few approaches have been suggested to answer the above contradiction:
a.
The Zohar (נח סא, ב) says that
the difference is where one has been sinning over and over again. Hashem
usually doesn’t punish right away; rather, He waits for the person to repent
and change his ways. If that doesn’t happen, then there is a point at which
Hashem decides that the person won’t change his ways anymore and that He has
waited long enough, and the person needs to be taken down. At that time when
Hashem punishes him, there is much happiness. In the case of the Egyptians,
says the Zohar, they didn’t reach that point yet, and therefore Hashem wasn’t
happy with their death. This answer doesn’t really relate to us because we
don’t have a way to know if and when a person has reached the point that Hashem
gives up on him. Only Hashem knows this and therefore He told the angels not to
sing. Still we, as a nation, are allowed to sing when we are saved from those
evil Arabs.
b.
Some say that the
prohibition to sing and rejoice is only while the wicked are being punished. At
that very time, Hashem is sad to see His creations die, but after they were
punished one may express his happiness (Rosh David, Parashat Beshalach 54 and
Iyun Yaakov, Berakhot 9). This explains well the reason Hashem prevented the
angels from singing, because they asked to sing while the Egyptians were
drowning. Afterward, it was surely permitted, as we see that Moshe and the
nation sang Shirat HaYam. According to this answer, we may rejoice after we
hear that those terrorists were taken down.
c.
Another answer is that
the angels were not allowed to sing as they were not the ones who were being
saved from the Egyptians. But the people, who were chased to be killed or to be
taken back to slavery, were allowed to sing and Moshe and the nation indeed did
so. This answer can teach that with the current event, the Jewish people, who
were saved from the Jihadists, are permitted to express their happiness.
d.
One can surely make a distinction between one's enemy who isn't
wicked, in which case one shouldn't rejoice upon their downfall, and the wicked
who are the enemies of Hashem or Klal Israel. In those cases, we can be happy
and express our happiness.
There
are a few more answers to the above, but overall we learn that it’s correct and
even expected of us to rejoice at the destruction of those evil murderers.